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This video is really moving. Please shre it with anyone you know who cares about the future of children with autism

The band, Five for Fighting, is generously donating $0.40 to Autism Speaks
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studies to help find a cure. When you have a moment,  please visit the link
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They are aiming for 10,000 hits, but hopefully we can help them to surpass
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http://www.whatkindofworlddoyouwant.com/videos/view/id/408214



 

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In this site you will:

Discover and celebrate the wonder & uniqueness of Asperger's Syndrome

Learn about my Aspie, Brett, and me as an Aspie's Mom and author.

Find a place where someone else knows exactly what you are going through. 

 

Brett and Karen At Fisherman's Wharf in San Francisco in August

 

 

Brett turns 15!

I remember  when Brett was about 3 or 4 years old.  We were all sitting down for dinner.  Brett always sat right across from me. Ken and I had been discussing our most recent trials with Brett.  I sat there for a few moments and looked at Brett . Such a beautiful  child, angelic really.. Big blue eyes, long dark lashes, almost white blond hair that was curly if we let it get to long...  I sat there and wondered, " What will he be like when he's nine years old.  That was as far down the line I could look I guess.   He's fifteen now.  And let me tell you, where we've been, where he is and where we see him going.  

(To be continued)

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Brett 1 year

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See this and other art work by Brett Emigh

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Asperger's Syndrome
    and the silver lining.

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An Aspies key to success is his/her special interest.  Encourage what they are interested in.  If the interest of the day is dinosaurs, find videos, books, wesites, museums, etc... If it's art, make sure there are always pencils, markers, and paper available.    This is their "silver lining".  My son has always loved trains. So, we go railroad exhibits and rides. We have videos, and what seems like miles of train track including wooden trains , plastic trains, diecast metal trains; electric, push, and battery operated!  He's only 13 so he has other interests but Tony Attwood has assured  me that he will find that one extra special interest and there in may lie the perfect job for him.  Good luck in pursuing those interests!  Check out my famous person list to see what the Asperper's potential can be.  With support, encouragement, and practice our Aspie's can lead full, productive, rewarding and successful lives.  Social skills training is as essential for success as speech thereapy, occupational therapy, and behavioral intervention.  Request it at you next IEP!

 

 

ALONE IN THE CROWD

for Brett

 

Alone in the crowd.

A cliché, they say.

For me, it’s my life.

How I live day to day.

In my head are my friends like Thomas and Pooh.

I go to see them when there’s nothing to do.

I know no other way to be

And only I know just what I see.

I’m told I need to be like you.

It’s what everyone does. It’s what I should do.

It’s just to hard. I can’t see it your way.

I’ll tell you my story if I may.

So many things are too loud or too bright.

If I say so myself, I have excellent sight.

My own little world is a comfortable place.

I do everything there at my own pace.

I repeat things I’ve heard from videos and books.

Over and over again until I get looks.

Mom and Dad say, “Use your own words.”

And I think, “These are my own words. Haven‘t you heard?”

Sometimes my Mommy cries for me.

She wants some answers. She wants the key.

If only she knew there is no key.

She has to love me just for me.

She knows where to find me, though it may be loud.

She’ll find me there “ALONE IN THE CROWD“.

- Karen Emigh, Brett’s Mom

 

What's New?
BOOKWORM
 
  It's finally here!!!! BOOKWORM focuses on the abstract concept of idioms while Brett and Herman make their way through their home town.  With the use of a map Brett and Herman head to the library and talk to familiar faces.  When Brett confuses idioms for literal meaning funny interactions result! HOPE YOU ENJOY IT AS MUCH AS I DID WRITING IT!
 

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Oops, Wrong Planet !
 
Look for Brett and the rest of our family to be featured in an upcoming documentary about Stephen Ramsey, film maker and director, who has recently learned he too has Asperger's Syndrome, and his journey to various parts of the world interviewing people and families of Asperger's.  A spring premier is predicted as I understand it.  I'll keep you posted.  Should be eye opening for all of us.  Good Luck Stephen!!!
 
 
 

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